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[Episode 2] The Great Girlie Man Conspiracy

[Episode 2] The Great Girlie Man Conspiracy

Occasionally at the beginning of each episode Ill share with you a specific tip, trick, or attraction secret Ive discovered. At times Ill record a short video, at times Ill share a special report, resource or blog post. This is a way for me to share information with you I may not cover in my story, information vital to your attraction success. Today, I want to share with you my no fail opener, a technique you can use that always breaks the ice and starts a conversation with any woman

http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/nofailopening.htm
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Hey Guys,
 
When I was in high school in San Antonio, TX and in college at the University of Texas at Austin, I used to watch a lot of movies. When youre not good with women, thats what you dowatch movies. Ive always been good at picking up patterns, and I noticed something about these moviesthey all followed a similar story line.
 
It goes like this: nice guy goes to high school or college. He falls in love with the prettiest girl in school. But theres a problemshes dating the stud, the athletic jerk, and doesnt notice him. 
 
The stud is a real ass. Treats her like crap. Beats up the nerds, including our hero. Along the way, however, something funny happensshe realizes the nice guy is really what she wants, and the stud is worthless.
 
There comes a point in the movie where the nice guy confesses his feelings to her, and she falls for him. The stud tries to take her back, but they unite to defeat him, she learns her lesson about bad boys, and she lives happily ever after with the nice guy.
 
If you watch any romantic comedy (chick flick), youll see they follow that script. And you know what? That makes for a good movie, but its not realityyoull see why in just a bit.
 
If you pay close attention to the social conversation in this country, there is an undercurrent regarding women, dating, and relationships. Its there when youre born, its there when you go to grade school, and it follows you the rest of your life.
 
It gets in your head, and you follow it. You do whats supposed to work.   Youre nice to women. You treat them with respect. You do everything you can to make them happy. You provide for them. You try to please them. You submit to them. 
 
You let them take the lead in the relationship. Youre never rude or offensive around them. And if theyre in a relationship, theyre happy, right? After all, this is what the media, culture, and society say work.
 
Funny thing is, when you do this in the real world, you dont get the results from the movies. I know because I tried it. Over and over. I did everything you see in the media thats supposed to work, and I got my head handed to me.
 
I got rejected over and over. If I got to the first date, I never got a second date. I was told how nice I was. How sweet.  How I was a great catch for another womanbut not the one I was with. 
 
I got lots of safe hugs. And pecks on the cheek. And polite brush-offs. That was it. No passionate embraces, lasting kisses, or wild, crazy sex. And obviously no girlfriend, wife or lover.
 
The worst though, was confessing my feelings to a woman. I felt weird doing it, but since thats whats supposed to work according to society, I did it anyways. Things did not go like they did in the movies. She always got on odd look on her face, then delivered the line I hated so muchLJBF.
 
Lets Just Be Friends.
 
So much for that one. Perhaps youve had the same experience.
 
[----Note from the Future----]
 
At times Ill interrupt my story to make a comment or provide a resource, looking back on my story from where I am now with women. One thing I really missed out on during the time I was in college was what I later came to call natural attraction. This is an important concept, and Ive posted a write up about it here:
 
http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/shocking-secrets.htm
 
[-----Back to my Story--------]
 
 
One day in college after being friended by yet another woman I liked, it finally dawned on me that perhaps the people in the media were not qualified to be telling me how to attract women.
 
So, I started to pay closer attention to the media. And I finally realized that it was full of girlie men, men who were secretly jealous of those guys who did attract women. These men had feminine characteristics, and advocated feminine behavior for men.
 
What the hell?
 
So, I went back in time and started watching movies that came out before there were girlie men. Movies that were made in a time when real men were celebrated, not denigrated. Movies like 12 OClock High with Gregory Peck:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twelve_O'Clock_High
 
Or North by Northwest with Carey Grant.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/North_by_Northwest

Or all the John Wayne movies. And the Clint Eastwood movies. And the original Pink Panther with David Niven.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Pink_Panther_(1963_film)
 
And it hit me like a cold bucket of water to the face. These movies proved that
 
TO BE CONTINUED
 
On with the fun,
 
-John Alanis
The King of Let em Come to You
 
PS Im a huge fan of old movies, especially movies that pre-dated the feminization of men in the 70s, movies that featured the manliest of men.
 
You can learn a lot from watching these movies. Most of them feature interactions between strong men and strong women, women who knew how to deal with louts and brutes, yet who appreciated real men.
 
Heres some homework for yougo watch the classic Casablanca featuring Humphrey Bogart, and Ingrid Bergman. Youll learn more about how men should interact with women than watching ten chick flicks approved by the girlie men in the media.
 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Casablanca_(film)
PPS  Check out my new downloadable book on Amazon, Can This Book Attract Women For You Too? 
 
http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/books/attract.htm
 
Oh, and you dont need a Kindle to read itAmazon will give you a free reader that lets you read books on any devicecomputer, ipad, smartphone, etc.  Its way cool, and its free here:
 
 
http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/reader.htm
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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