[Episode 3] The Big Lie
Unusual attraction secret revealed: how to use a clever twist of words to turn on a womans mind. You cannot turn on her body without first turning on her mind, and in this video I show you how to use two simple techniques to set her mind on fire:
Yesterday we left off talking about the girlie men in the media. These are the soft, effeminate fops who have taken over modern media, preaching their gospel of the sweet, sensitive, nice guy, programming other men to fail with women like they have.
Like other men, I believed their nonsense growing up. After all, there was no place else to go to learn how to attract women, so I just did what every other guy did. I didnt want to hurt women or be a jerk, so I just acted like a nice guy should according to the media. For some reason, I never got the results they show in the movies.
Finally I started to think the unthinkable, started to think that everything Id ever heard about women, dating, relationships and male behavior was just plain wrong. So, I turned back the clock to a time before political correctness, and started watching movies from a time when real men were celebrated, not denigrated by girlie men.
One day, I happened to be watching the original Pink Panther (the hero is David Niven in that one, not Sellers) with a female friend of mine, Joan. David Niven plays an unabashed playboy, and does everything that is not nice, not politically correct, and goes against everything the girlie men in the media preach against to seduce a young princess.
I thought my female friend would be shocked and offended by such male chauvinist behavior. Imagine my surprise when she sighed and said, I wish more men were like him.
I stopped the movie and asked her to explain. What she told me shocked meand set me on the eventual path to male liberation, to mastering the skill of attracting women.
Heres what she told me: Look, I cant stand all these nice guys. I know they mean well, but I just dont feel anything around them. Men like David Niven make me feel so alive. I wish more men were like that.
Wow, that was a revelation to me. So I asked her to explain more. She said, Its hard to explain, but women dont make rational decisions about men even though we should. We act if we feel chemistry, and dont act if we dont. Its all based on the feeling.
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Heres an important secret about attraction: women make decisions about men based on whether or not they feel chemistry. If she feels chemistry for you, shell do anything she can to be with you. If she doesnt feel it, nothing can get her to be with you, not looks, not money, not fame. Nothing.
Do this exercise and youll see what I mean. Go to www.Match.com or www.PlentyofFish.com and look through the female profiles. Look through enough of them, and youll see them use the word chemistry over and over.
Chemistry is created by male behavior, and killed by it. Well talk about both behaviors later on in my storythey are key to you mastering the skill of attraction. I created a short video regarding this, and you can watch it here:
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A light bulb started to go on in my head. I asked her how nice guys made her feel. She said, honestly, I feel nothing around them. I wish I did, but I dont. And if Im not feeling it, I cant stand to be around them.
A-ha. That started to make sense. Every time Id been a nice guy to women, they brushed me off. Finally I knew whymy behavior wasnt making them feel chemistry.
Then I started to get PISSED. Not at her, but at the girlie men in the media whod wasted my time (and the time of the women Id met) over all these years. I believed their deadly lies, believed their bullshit, and bought into their utter desire to turn men into women.
I realized Id fallen for The Big Lie. The Big Lie is this: women want men to supplicate to them, let them take the lead, and act like nice guys. They want men to cry on their shoulders, confess their feelings, and think pure thoughts about them. Anything else is craven, chauvinistic, uneducated, disrespectful behavior.
I bought into it hook, line and sinker, wasting year after year because of it. But not anymore. Not ever again. I was done living The Big Lie.
I vowed to get even with them somehow but at the time had no idea how. That would come later, and my revenge on the girlie men would be sweet. But youll hear about that later in my story.
Recognition of The Big Lie was not enough to propel me to success with women. It was just the start of the journey, the call to master the skill of attraction, with many ups, downs, adventures, victories and defeats along the way. Youll hear about them all in upcoming episodes.
Back to my conversation with Joan. Ok, I said, that does make sense to me in a weird kind of way. But what about these bad boys you like so much that keep breaking your heart, whats the deal with them?
She sighed and said, Yeah, let me tell you about these Bad Boys
TO BE CONTINUED
On with the fun,
The King of Let em Come to You
PS If you want to see a perfect example of how male behavior creates attraction with women, go watch the original Pink Panther movie with David Niven. Pay close attention to how his older playboy character seduces a much younger woman. It is absolutely classic.
If youre not familiar with David Niven, read up on him here:
Hes a great actor to study when it comes to modeling an attractive man.
PPS As you can see from reading this episode, women think much differently about attraction than men do. Itd take me a whole week of emails to explain the hows and whys, so instead of doing that, I decided to record an audio CD on the topic.
I have several copies in stock, and Ill send one to you free if youll cover my shipping. Deal? You can get your copy of my free How Women Think About Men CD by going here:
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