[Episode 17] Why only experts should play with explosives (Part 1 of 5)
WARNING: You may be losing your testosterone, putting you at risk of growing MAN BOOBS. What you will discover in the following report is shocking. Read this now, so you can be sure it will never happen to you.
After my success with Kat, I returned to Austin in triumph, ready to build on my success. Id had a small taste of it, and I wanted more. Finally, I had some predictability where Id had none before, and now I wanted consistency.
If I were to take my ultimate revenge on the girlie men in the media for wasting my time (and the time of all the women Id met previous to meeting The Hound), I needed to master the skill of attraction, not just have a few successes here or there. If I were to teach it to other men, mastery was required on my part first. And if that entailed fun adventures with uncommonly sexy women along the way, so be it.
There was one small problem in Austin, howeverI had no idea where to go to meet women, at least the kind of women I wanted to meet. In high school and college, its easy. You are in situations that force you to interact with women, but once you leave there, those situations pretty much disappear.
[----Note from the Future----]
Theres an odd, yet very effective way to meet uncommonly sexy women no matter where you live. Its not bars, clubs, internet dating, facebook or anything else youve ever seen. Its so unusual and effective, I recorded a video about it, and you can view it here:
[-----Back to my Story-------]
Youre limited to who you meet at work, and since I worked for myself, I didnt have that option. You can go out to bars and clubs, and while I do like high end bars, I detest clubs. Other than that, I had no clue about where to meet women, something Id have to fix if I were to teach the skill of attraction to other men.
So what did I do? What any 21st Century man would doI turned to the internet. Amazing how the Kiss song, 2000 Man featuring Ace Frehley on vocals kinda came true.
Ever since dating sites came out, Ive always been fascinated with them. As a direct response marketer, Ive gotten very good at putting words on paper and on the web that got people to respond to me. So, I signed up for several online dating sites, and whipped up a profile based on what The Hound told me about women.
The results were astonishing. Id put up profiles before, and gotten no answers. None. Not even from ugly women. But when I re-wrote my ad based on what I now knew about attraction, I started getting emails left and right.
Even better, these responses were from high quality women, interested in meeting a cool guy (not a bad boy or a nice guy, a cool guynever forget how important that is).
I knew enough from studying sales and marketing that each piece of the marketing process is to move them to the next stage. So, for example, the purpose of my profile was to get a woman to respond. Nothing more, nothing less.
The purpose of my initial response to her was to get her to give me her email address. Once I had that, the purpose of my email to her was to get her to write me back. The next email from me to her was to get her on the phone. Once I had her on the phone, I wanted to qualify her, then set up a meeting in person.
A lot of guys still think internet dating is weird, but I disagree. It gives you the opportunity to master each step of the attraction process in a rejection free environment, and overcome some of your fears. (www.PlentyofFish.com is a great, free dating site to test your skills on).
For example, for the longest time I had a fear of calling women. It was a mindless, irrational, stupid fear, but literally, Id feel like throwing up when I dialed her number. I was always nervous when she answered, and that never makes for good conversation.
I was able to overcome that by calling a lot of women I met online. Because wed gone through a process of becoming familiar with each other AND because she was anticipating and expecting my call, I wasnt as fearful. As time passed and I talked to woman after woman after woman, I completely lost my fear of calling a woman.
Now I actually look forward to it, because its become second nature. So, if you have any irrational fears about calling or talking to women like I did, practice on the internet. Its the best way to talk to enough women in a rejection free environment so that you completely overcome your fears.
Oh, and if you want to know a few of the best dating sites, I highly recommend all of these:
Stay away from sites like adultfriendfinder.com Theyre just disguised porn sites with a lot of fake profiles.
Anyways, lets get back to my story. Id put up my profile, gotten a pretty good response, and talked to a few women on the phone. None, I felt like meeting in person, but it was still good practice. So, my head got bigger, and I started to think I had this stuff down cold, that I was the man.
Thats when I opened my mail on match.com and saw a message from a woman named Lena. She was hot. Sexy. A firecracker. And although I did not know it at the time, she would arrive with a bucket of cold water to dump on my big ego, to show me I was still a babe in the woods when it came to attraction
TO BE CONTINUED
On with the fun,
The King of Let em Come to You
PS If youre into internet dating (and I highly recommend you test it outits the best way to hone your attraction skills), have I got a treat for you.
My friend Dave Miz has a 'cut and paste' message that gets you a reply nearly every time, and he swears it attracts the hottest girls with absolutely no effort. Ive tested it out and gotten similar results. But hey, dont take it from me, try it out for yourself at:
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